Speaker

Dean Smith

Dean Smith
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Bio:

Most leadership performance problems aren’t strategy problems. They are Emotional Overhead problems, and almost no one is talking about them accurately.

Dean Eric Smith is changing that. As the Forgiveness Development Pioneer, he has built the first rigorous, neuroscience-backed discipline for identifying and eliminating the cognitive and emotional burden that unresolved conflict, resentment, and guilt place on leaders, silently eroding the capacities organizations are paying them to deliver.

His path to this work didn’t start in a boardroom. When Dean was 12, his mother was murdered by his stepfather. What followed were years of letting unforgiveness quietly run his life, until he made a different choice. He pursued the hardest internal work of his life, forgave the man who killed his mother, reconciled with him face to face, and ultimately helped him forgive himself. That journey became the award-winning documentary Live to Forgive, and the foundation for everything that followed.

Holding a Master’s Degree in Organizational Leadership and drawing on 18 years as a high-performance coach, Dean has built the frameworks and language that give executive leaders a performance intervention most of them have never considered and can’t unfeel once they encounter it. His proprietary work includes The A.C.T. Forgiveness Development Method™ and The H.U.M.A.N. Bridge™. He is also the author of The Forgiveness Habit.

He is a devoted husband to his wife Molly, a proud father of two teenagers, and by most accounts, a pretty funky beatboxer.


Speaking Topics:

The Unburdened Leader

The highest-performing leaders in the world aren’t being held back by strategy, market conditions, or talent gaps. They are being held back by Emotional Overhead, the measurable performance cost of carrying unresolved conflict, resentment, bitterness, and guilt. No performance review has ever measured it. No leadership framework has ever addressed it directly.

Dean Eric Smith has spent 18 years building the discipline that does: Forgiveness Development.

The Unburdened Leader delivers what no other leadership keynote touches: the neuroscience of why unresolved emotional weight silently erodes the capacities leaders are paid to deliver, and a live, in-room encounter with the first step of Forgiveness Development—the discipline built to clear it. Audiences don’t just hear about this work. They begin it before they leave the room.

What makes this experience uncommon is the range Dean creates. He moves fluidly between spontaneous humor (an impromptu song, a perfectly-timed physical bit) and moments of genuine emotional weight, producing an atmosphere where audiences are fully alive and completely present. That presence is precisely what makes the content land at the level it does.

Your audience will leave with:

• A clear, neuroscience-backed understanding of exactly how Emotional Overhead is costing them performance, in terms they won’t be able to unsee
• A real first step taken in the room, before they walk out the door, through a live encounter with The H.U.M.A.N. Bridge™
• Measurably more leadership bandwidth: the capacity to make cleaner decisions, hold their teams with greater presence, and lead without the invisible weight that has been quietly running their results


Workshops:

The Unburdened Leader Workshop: The problem isn’t on your dashboard. That’s why it’s still there.

Your team isn’t underperforming because of a strategy gap. They are underperforming because of Emotional Overhead, the measurable cognitive and emotional burden that unresolved conflict, resentment, and guilt place on leaders, silently eroding the capacities your organization is paying them to deliver. It doesn’t show up on engagement surveys. It doesn’t appear in exit interviews. But it is present in every meeting, every high-stakes decision, and every interaction your leaders have with their teams.

Most organizations address everything around this problem. Dean Eric Smith addresses the problem itself.

What This Workshop Is

The Unburdened Leader is a half-day or full-day workshop built on The A.C.T. Forgiveness Development Method™, a three-phase process grounded in over 3,000 peer-reviewed studies on forgiveness, neuroscience, and human performance. It takes leaders from honest self-examination through the decision to release what they’re carrying, and into a daily practice that makes that freedom sustainable and measurable.

This is not a motivational experience. It is a performance intervention, one that gives leaders the science, the framework, and the guided experience to identify exactly what they’re carrying, understand what it’s costing them, and begin clearing it in the room.

Organizational outcomes include: reduced emotional exhaustion, faster conflict resolution, stronger psychological safety, and a measurable increase in leadership bandwidth, the capacity that drives retention, team performance, and culture.

By the end of the day, participants won’t just understand Forgiveness Development differently. They’ll have already begun.

The A.C.T. Forgiveness Development Method™

A — Acknowledge

Before forgiveness can be chosen, the burden must be seen clearly. Participants identify their B.O.B. (Burden of Bitterness), map their coping behaviors, and name, often for the first time, exactly what carrying this burden has been costing them across seven measurable leadership capacities.

C — Choose

Forgiveness is not a feeling. It is a decision. Participants learn the critical distinction between decisional and emotional forgiveness, and are guided through the complete H.U.M.A.N. Bridge™, a five-step structured empathy sequence that moves them from the decision to forgive to the beginning of genuine emotional freedom. This is where the room shifts.

T — Transform

Freedom requires practice, not just decision. Participants leave with a personalized daily forgiveness practice grounded in behavioral neuroscience, a concrete, repeatable system they can implement and sustain over time.

What Participants Walk Away With

  • A clear understanding of how their unresolved emotional weight is degrading their leadership performance, backed by peer-reviewed neuroscience
  • Completion of The A.C.T. Forgiveness Development Method™ for at least one significant burden, begun and experienced in the room, not assigned as homework
  • A crossed H.U.M.A.N. Bridge™, a structured empathy experience that begins the neurological shift from resentment to release
  • A personalized daily forgiveness practice with a two-week Starter Protocol they can begin the same day
  • The language, framework, and internal tools to address new burdens as they arise, making this a lasting leadership capability, not a one-time intervention

Half-Day vs. Full-Day

The Half-Day Experience (3.5 to 4 hours) takes participants through the complete A.C.T. framework with focused guided exercises at each phase. Ideal for leadership teams who want a powerful, high-impact experience within a concentrated time window.

The Full-Day Experience (7 to 8 hours) provides extended time for deeper self-examination, more fully guided practice at each step of The H.U.M.A.N. Bridge™, small-group processing, and a comprehensive daily practice design session. Recommended for organizations committed to lasting culture change, teams navigating significant relational fracture, or leadership groups where self-forgiveness is a primary theme.

Who This Is For

Executive and senior leadership teams, mid-level managers, high-potential leaders, and any team where unresolved conflict, chronic stress, or performance gaps that can’t be explained by skill or strategy are quietly costing the organization.


Connecting with Others

Join Dean in this highly-interactive deep-dive into the subtle art of making others feel understood. Using cutting edge practices, Dean will share tips and techniques to help attendees become more proactive listeners and overall better communicators, leading to stronger and more natural bonds with others in their day to day lives. When individuals feel understood, their walls of resistance are lowered and a reserve of trust, unity, and productivity is released. This isn’t just learning from a lecture; it’s a fun and immersive experience. Participants will actively engage with others, practicing and refining their newfound skills in real-time. Dean’s specially crafted engagement activities are gateways to meaningful, emotional interactions, providing attendees with a safe and supportive environment where they can build confidence in their own ability to truly connect with others. As participants navigate through these shared experiences, they will get to see firsthand how well these techniques work and can be used to pave the way for creating meaningful bonds with others. Whether your goal is to improve personal or work-related communication, this workshop will deliver. More than just an educational venture; it’s a team-building adventure, fostering profound connections that resonate far beyond the session.

Speaking Topics

  • The Unburdened Leader
  • Connecting With Others